target="_blank">To one of Iris’ points on her blog, a great friend I grew
up with since the 6th grade (and former neighbor), I live an awesome life and
have More Than Enough.
Kate and I live a very sustainable lifestyle and that’s something we plan on
pursuing with slight upgrades along the way. Nothing flashy but to enjoy the
simple pleasures in life like fresh-out-the-oven bread, shopping here and
there, eating out, and chillin at the park.
Roof over my head? check!
Yummy Food in my tummy? check!
Fresh Clothes on my back? check!
Job? check!
Health? check!
Found and soon to be MARRIED to the < 3 of my life? check!
Unconditional love and support from the bestest friends and fam bam? check!
Residing in one of zeeee most beautiful cities in the whole entire world?
check!
With that said, it’s the simple pleasures in life that I enjoy. And though I
may bitch about about the strains and struggle whether it’s finances, the daily
grind at the job or whichever, the biggest thing I can bitch about is not being
motivated to just sit down and reflect (simple enough, right?). I used to be
king at that. Much like most of us are grumpy before we start the morning with
a cup of joe, I’m just in a bland and pissy mood when I don’t get to sit down,
relax a bit and, most of all, reflect.
Reflection is going over the checkpoints in life. What did I do? How did I get
there? How can I learn from it? How can I do it better next time? I’m the type
of dude who tracks things to do it better, whether’s it’s dealing with life
situations or work, in my case, the design process. I learn from my lessons and
mistakes.
I’m either always in a rush or too occupied recuperating from the bullshit to
sit and think. Like how some people are too tired to cook after work, they’ll
pop in a microwave dinner to satiate their hunger. I resort to mental junk
food. I’m too tired to do anything productively. When I get home, I sit around,
staring blankly at the screen of whatever Kate is watching. Most of the time I
have no clue what my mind is processing. Sounds easy enough and I know I need
to find a work-around from this.








